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Post by phvex on Aug 29, 2004 16:21:15 GMT -5
im a guy, and im confused. lets say i go out on a date with a feminist, (or a girl who wants equality among the sexes) will she still expect me to pay if we go for a dinner and a movie?
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Post by MO on Aug 29, 2004 17:47:16 GMT -5
I'm not a feminist but since they are the sultans of hypocrisy, my guess is that they would still expect you to pay. They claim they want to run with the big dogs but they are the first to jump up on their pedestal and say, "protect me" when things get tough. Although, to be fair, I have seen women who don't claim to be feminists doing that running away from a fire they started, too. I see it all the time on message boards where a woman will start something with people she can't finish. I have no respect for bimbos like that, conservative or feminist. You can see it in the women who go to work wearing blouses cut to their naval and threatening to sue because someone is leering. I dated a man that loved to be the big man about town, buying the rounds for others at the bar and spending extravagantly on frivolous things. Then, he would be broke before he got paid again! I told him to stop calling me broke! I decided if he was going to spend his money frivolously, it ought to be on me!  He shaped right up! I'd expect you to pay! |
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Post by cupolaa5 on Sept 3, 2004 11:48:33 GMT -5
Of course you will pay! one way or the other or you don't get it! Not all women are like this but I have met a few that thought the whole world revolved around them! double standards doesn't =equality. I remember years ago being screamed at for opening a door for a woman! It was after all my fault, I had mistaken her for a human being! I never thought of it as being sexist,I would open a Door for anybody man /woman just for the sake of being polite! Live and Learn  ?? |
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Post by cube4now on Sept 12, 2004 18:26:18 GMT -5
Very simple, they expect you to pay. Remember, to a feminist you are the enemy. Unless you are a feminist yourself, expect your relationship with one to fail.
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Post by Evergreen1 on Sept 14, 2004 15:11:48 GMT -5
of course you pay, they want it ALL ways!
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Post by colehartt on Sept 23, 2004 22:30:40 GMT -5
If you invite, you pay! Don't make the mistake of not knowing the difference between a feminist and a confident, successful woman.
Feminist...One who is overbearing in her sexuality.
Confident/Successful Woman is also a lady.
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Post by NMRepublican on Oct 8, 2004 8:42:34 GMT -5
I'm a female and I don't get it either. The feminists have succeeded in training many men to treat us with a marked lack of respect. They have created confusion among men as to what we expect and how we want to be treated.
Me, I want to be treated like a lady as long as I am acting like one. I admit, I expect a man to open a door for me. I am one of those women who will pause and give you ample opportunity to do so. I can't tell you how many times I have had a door slammed in my face because of it, too. Every time that happens I think "damn feminists". If you invite me to dinner, I expect you pay. There are instances where I will invite a man to dinner, like for his b-day or a thank you, and I tell you up front dinner is on me.
I miss the traditional roles once held. I hate that a man now expects a woman to uphold her traditional role plus go out and help bring in the bacon. I hate that a stay at home mom gets sidelong looks or comments from others because she chooses not to go into the workforce.
We can thank the bra burners for the lack of respect women enjoy today and the ultimate confusion in our male counterparts. MO is right about the women who want men to look, then scream harrassment. I don't think the feminists even know their own mind.
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Post by ProChildren on Nov 11, 2004 9:26:01 GMT -5
I want a feminist so I can get that broad to pay for me, hell I would be rich if I could talk all the women I dated into paying for my stuff
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Post by USA50 on Aug 12, 2009 16:27:17 GMT -5
I don't get it - you people are actually having this conversation?
It sounds like some discourse from the outskirts of The Great Gatsby.
Who, in their right (that is correct) mind even considers this stuff?
Do you think maybe, since the dawn of time up till now perhaps some women were hosting a forum on Male-sism, since the overbearing course of history has been one of males subjecting women?
Like I said in another post: Conservative boil the pot and clamp the lid on, then when it boils over, they blame the pot and say who, me?
Ms MO, then ... funny, on the other threads you sounded so much like a guy.
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He shaped right up! 
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